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Published on: Apr 29, 2010 by Dorothy Lafrinere
Last updated on: Apr 29, 2010
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To be trapped by anything can make one feel as if they are imprisoned in a small space with no air to breathe. Unlike the Jeanie trapped in a bottle for centuries until someone happened to find this bottle and magically rub it to life. You are not that lucky! Unfortunately there is no Prince Charming out there that will find you and magically rub you until you are free. You are the only one that can escape the prison of low self-esteem! Your self-esteem is up to you and only you. You can waste days upon days…years upon years waiting and hoping for that someone to come and make your self-esteem higher. It will never happen. You will have lived life lonely, angry, hidden and trapped. My advice to you is to begin with who you see ev...
Published on: Jan 09, 2009 by Dorothy Lafrinere
Last updated on: Jan 09, 2009
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New Years Resolutions....Hmmmmm. I have to wonder if that is a negative or a positive idea! Listening to people worry due to the pressure of the New Year's Resolution tradition.....has definitely made me stop and wonder. These are just a few things that I have heard repeatedly from others... "I seem to always struggle around New Years....Did I get ANYTHING accomplished this year?.....Am I thinner this year?.....Does my husband love me more this year?....What will I be like next year at this time?....Am I a better person this year?....I just try to remember .... "Would I judge a friend's year the way I judge my own.....and would I be this hard on someone I loved?"" Another New Years dilemma ..... do I even appreciate the chan...
Published on: Nov 21, 2008 by Dorothy Lafrinere
Last updated on: Nov 21, 2008
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Yes, it is I once again; here to titillate your brain cells with my very UNIQUE ways of thinking!So how’s that for an opening line? If you don’t like it, my first thoughts to you are this…”SO WHAT”! Actually I only said that to introduce an, “attitude phrase”. It is a very good positive reaction in defense of your self-esteem and self-worth. So many of us fall into the traps of pity and “woe is me”, which only ignites the fires of negative thoughts. They will do nothing but add fuel to those negativity fires in your mind.I hear more and more, every day, from women who dig themselves deeper and deeper into personal pits of loneliness and self-abuse with negative thoughts. For some reason they would rather allow the negative elements ...
Published on: Sep 01, 2008 by Dorothy Lafrinere
Last updated on: Sep 26, 2008
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There are so many emotions in a human mind. We feel loss, pain, loneliness, deception, insecurities, happiness, balanced, confused, confident, positive, negative and so on. We feel these emotions all on our own.....then we add a relationship to those emotions and it really does become challenging to say the least. We not only have to learn to identify and understand our own inner workings but now we have to try and understand someone else's emotions. No wonder relationships are difficult and hard to maintain. In order for a relationship to be successful both partners have to be on the same page...by that I mean you should both be compatible in thoughts, desires, and mutual respect. Beware of the differences in perso...
Published on: Jul 11, 2008 by Dorothy Lafrinere
Last updated on: Jul 11, 2008
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' Family'.... Where did it go? Today we live in a world of such different morals and priorities compared to yesterday. I know that that sounds like something all of our parents and grandparents have said to us, but in actual fact the changes that have occurred in the last 50 years have been the most drastic and self-destructing! Families of yesterday and today are so completely opposite that they tend to be foreign to each other. Does it ever make you wonder why? When I take a few minutes to just breathe, I cannot help but wonder how we, the people, have reached this point of existence. The point where the norm is now blended families, children with cell phones, sex in the middle schools, worse yet, a common c...
Published on: Jul 06, 2008 by Dorothy Lafrinere
Last updated on: Sep 26, 2008
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Gloucester Teens Had Pact To Get Pregnant...... GLOUCESTER (WBZ) ― There's a stunning twist to the sudden rise in teen pregnancies at Gloucester High School. 17 students there are expecting and, according to a published report, most of them became that way on purpose. Time Magazine is reporting that nearly half of the girls confessed to making a pact to get pregnant and raise their babies together. None of the girls is older than 16. Principal Joseph Sullivan said that wasn't all that was shocking. "We found out one of the fathers is a 24-year-old homeless guy," he told Time. Last month, two top officials at the high school's health center resigned in a fight over contraceptives distribution. Medical Director Dr. ...
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A personal narrative on Violence
 Posted at 02:34:32 PM on May 10, 2010
This is a truly sad and ugly recount of your experiences. To say the we are human and we are born to error is an understatement as to what you have just brought to the forefront through your words.
I am sorry for your horrors and the victimization you were forced into because of who you are and where you were born.

I continue to wonder...who ever gave any man or woman the right to judge another. It is God's place and no one else's.
We are all equal in the fact that we are all people and we were all given the same gift...that being the gift of 'Life'.

This recount is sad but true and once again I am embarrassed to be one of the people as those who force violence on another are my equal~

~D~
 
Acceptance and Boundaries
 Posted at 01:18:51 PM on Jun 16, 2010
Excellent post...I just had a tweet this moment :)

Funny how as we become older we begin to unravel our yarns of mind thoughts and reactions.
Is it through maturing that this stage of realization comes to be?
Quite a few years ago..I wrote an article titled, 'SO WHAT' ~ This article was simple and to the point and it turned out to be one of my most popular shares.
The topic in which I wrote this article was for a jealousy section in my website which brings me to your topic about observing, judging and accepting. These are three human traits that tend to become all tangled up and out of balance for so many through emotional webs.
My thoughts on judging... immediately go to the thought of, who am I or who are you to be a judge. Once we realize that it is not for us to do...we slowly stop falling into that bad habit. Judging also moves us into comparisons of others which is never positive or healthy~
Then we move onto accepting unconditional...this is a true test of ones ability to trust...if you can trust you will easily be able to accept.
 
Beware of Blinding Love!
 Posted at 03:38:39 PM on Sep 06, 2008
Hello Clotilde
Thank you so much for sharing your thoughts regarding my article.
You are correct in that we do all have our own thoughts and that is what makes the world a very colorful and challenging place for ones mind. Also that we do find a deeper love for our partners through tough sharing and we learn more about who we are.
In regards to loving sight...it is as I mentioned a double edged sword and there are so many people that have entered a relationship based on all of the wrong reasons due to that loving sight.
They see their partner as they want to see them due to the love in their eyes and then only later does reality take over and the question of..."Who is this person?" begins to surface. Unfortunately it is then that there are children involved , a home, memories, ect.
My intent through my thoughts was simply to add a bit more hindsite to people so that when they ' fall in love' they are better prepared to know what is infatuation, desire or a true commitment.
I enjoyed reading your thoughts in that you are one of few that already has that ability to see beyond and can trust your love sight ...that is rare and you should cherish that.
For so many out there that do not have or have not yet reached that place in their minds...education & information is a much needed hindsite!!
Minor differences are necessary in any relationship as they add life and a certain amount of anticipation between the couple. it is the red flags differences and masks that we must be very aware of .
Again thank you for sharing your very insightful thoughts with me.
Have a very positive day!
~D~
 
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